Everyone remembers the first time.
Some of us would rather not.
Whether it happened by accident, or it was planned, at night in the back seat of a car, in our parents' basement while they were away, in a tiny dormitory room in college, at the graveyard or in an open field --- the first time stays with us. We shall share what it was like when you went "All The Way."
Some of us went in with outrageous expectations... or fear ...or uncontrolled giggling. All of our myths about sex came with us to that first time.
This feature is meant to be an exploration of human sexuality, and our personal emotional experiences.
All identities will be kept COMPLETELY CONFIDENTIAL. Only the stories will be revealed. We invite you be part of this community, sharing THE FIRST TIME, another Reader-driven feature of the GENERATOR 21.
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I'll never forget my first time, if for no other reason than that it hurt like crazy, and all the blood and all... Well, you know. None of the other girls I knew who had done it ever mentioned that part. I think it's maybe because they were as freaked out about it all as I was. And, well, once you have done it, you can't go back, can you?
I had this big crush on this guy who was a senior when I was sixteen. We were going steady, and we made out a lot. He said that he loved me, and I said I loved him, too, and I think we both knew it was going to happen. The thing really was when and where we could finally do it. It's kind of hard when you're in high school, finding places to be alone that is.
One thing I knew was that I did not want to do it in a car. That seemed so tacky to me. I couldn't understand how some of the other girls had ever let it happen in a car.
Todd didn't care where it happened. He was just always punching and beating on things like the dashboard of his car, or his locker when we would meet between bells. It was like he was always in this hurry. But I made him wait.
Looking back, I wish I had been smart enough to wait longer now... I mean, I was crazy about Todd, and I wanted to make him happy and yeah I guess I did want to know what it was like. But we weren't really in love. We broke up after he went off to college anyway. I got a new boyfriend after that.
But all that was a long time ago. I finally met this man I really love, we got married, and now we have a beautiful new daughter.
FROM LS, Camden, NJ, USA:
With your help, in this space we'll share with you the experience that other G21 readers had THE FIRST TIME. We shall look at the expectations, the circumstances, the aftermath of our readers' first times; how they lost their virginity.
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